Spencer and Shelby’s Story

For siblings Spencer and Shelby, living at The Haven has made it easier than ever to stay connected while still enjoying their own independence.

The two now live in the same housing community, which means spending time together comes naturally. Whether it’s watching Netflix at Spencer’s apartment or letting Shelby take the lead on entertainment at hers, they have found a rhythm that works for both of them. While they don’t often cook together, they enjoy sharing meals and visiting each other regularly. Living close by has not changed their relationship, but it has given them more opportunities to spend time together.

What stands out most to both Spencer and Shelby is the strong sense of community at The Haven. They describe it as a friendly and welcoming place where people are kind and connections come easily. Shelby especially enjoys the community garden, where she spends time working on her plot. Spencer, who is newer to The Haven, appreciates the calm environment and the convenient access to public transit, with a nearby bus stop that makes getting around simple.

Both are looking forward to the summer months, especially the community BBQs. These gatherings offer a chance to meet other tenants and build new friendships, something they both value.

When it comes to daily life, Spencer and Shelby enjoy having their own spaces. Spencer spends his time on the computer, watching TV, and reading, while Shelby enjoys TV, computer games, and walking along the pathway outside the building. They both appreciate the balance of independence and connection, often chatting with neighbours and building relationships within the community.

Outside of The Haven, they enjoy typical sibling activities like going to the movies and going out to eat. Now that they live so close, they are excited to spend more time shopping, visiting bookstores and gaming shops, and going for walks together.

Living independently has also brought new experiences. Spencer has discovered a love of cooking since moving into his own apartment. With assistance and encouragement from his support workers, Chris and Aby, he has been building his skills and confidence in the kitchen. Shelby is also supported in her day to day life by her support worker, Maggie, helping her maintain her routines and stay connected to the community around her.

Both Spencer and Shelby describe their experience at The Haven as a positive one. From decorating their apartments with posters to building friendships and routines, they are creating a space that feels like home while staying closely connected to each other.

Their journey to independent living has also been supported by the important partnership with LiveWorkPlay. Through this collaboration, Spencer and Shelby have been able to access the supports and opportunities that make living independently not only possible, but meaningful and sustainable.

Spencer and Shelby at LiveWorkPlay's "Make A Buzz" event with their Mom, Sandra and Keenan, the Director of Communications at LiveWorkPlay, in the background. Spencer received the Terri Hill My Own Home Bursary Award.